Day 17 of The Thirty Day Proactive Test
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Just to refresh everyone's memory, at the beginning of Chapter 2, Covey has the reader do a visualization exercise where you are to imagine going to your own funeral. and members of four different groups (family, friends, work and church/community service organization) get up to give eulogies. Write down what you hope they would say. Take the time to record the impressions you had in the funeral visualization at the beginning of Chapter 2. I created this chart to help me organize my thoughts.
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Area of Activity | Character | Contributions | Achievements |
Family | Tyrannical, Autocratic, Intimidating | Fear, Pain and Punishment | He stood up to us when we tried to bully him and made us all look and feel like pieces of shit. |
Friends | Loyal | Good conversation and entertainment with his music and writing | He went back to school acquiring a Master's degree after he became disabled. |
Work | A good boss, comfortable to be around, good at leadership without being overbearing or "bossy" | A good, relatively stress-free work environment | He was able to live independently and run his own small business pretty much his whole adult life as a disabled guy in a wheelchair. |
Church/Community Service, etc. | Ethical, honest, Open-minded | Leadership by example | He restructured our organization and kicked out the riff-raff creating a comfortable and safe place to learn, discuss and practice our religion. |
So at the end of Chapter 2, he has us prepare the above table as the first exercise. In the second exercise he asks us to take a few moments and write down your roles as you now see them. Are you satisfied with the mirror image of your life?
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I'm pretty much satisfied with my roles as they are now, except I intensely desire more autonomy from my family.
3. Set up time to completely separate yourself from daily activities and to begin work on your personal mission statement...
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